Anyone who immediately thinks “squirting, not every woman can do that” “and I can’t anyway”. Incorrect! You are capable of doing it and you probably haven't found the right way yet. Squirting is emancipation in bed! Because our vaginas can also cum. And we are in no way inferior to the men! Ha!
Squirting is not a myth and any of us can do it!
Although the fluid that comes out of the urethra when you squirt, it's not urine!
There are women who have an orgasm while squirting , others don't and just experience the sensation of pure squirting.
Table of contents
1. Squirting: what is it?
Many women find the topic of squirting exciting, but don't know how or simply don't dare to do it. Many say that the experience is worth trying.
Unlike orgasm , which is often a rollercoaster ride of ups and downs, squirting is more of a feeling of letting go.
2. What happens when you squirt?
For everyone who is new to the squirting game and may need a brief introduction to theory about what exactly happens:
Technically speaking, stimulating the G-spot fills the paraurethral gland , or Skene's gland. It's a sponge-like structure that absorbs the fluid known as female secretions. So when a woman squirts, this mixture of uric acid (no, not pee) flows out of the urethra. But not from the vaginal canal, as some men suspect.
3. Squirting = Myth?
The internet is full of tutorials on how to make someone else squirt. We are convinced that you yourself know best how to do it and that you will probably be more successful on your own. And only do it for yourself if you really want to. There is absolutely no point in chasing a sex trend or making your partner happy with it. It's much more worth doing for yourself. Let's go.
Oh yes, if you think now that when you squirt, you squirt urine, you are wrong. The ejaculate (yay, equality) is not a pee but a secretion that simply smells of nothing and is relatively clear. So definitely. No pee.
Disclaimer: Cumming is for more experienced women. In other words, if you've just learned to walk, you can try ballet, but you'll have a hard time. So if you're just starting out with your sexuality, you can of course experiment with squirting, but don't be disappointed if it doesn't work right away.
4. How to...
1. Rules for the sexy time:
Take time to “train” squirting and find a moment when you're relaxed. Don't be disturbed, cell phone on silent, door closed. Have warm thoughts. Maybe you're thinking about your partner's scent, or you're getting hot with femtasy .. Try to breathe slowly and calmly, this will relax your body and all the great muscles in your pelvic floor . Be patient and don't expect too much! It may not work right away.
2. Preparation is everything:
Lube can help make it more comfortable. Sometimes our magical liquid leaves us sooner than we would like. So have lubricant or a pleasant body oil made from natural ingredients ready. Natural lubes are the best as they contain no harmful potential irritants and many are even vegan.
Prepare a large towel and slide it under your pelvis. Many women also have inhibitions about the load, which may leave your body quite uncontrollably. We women are just not used to having bodily fluids splattering around us during sex. Everything waterproof? Let's go!
3. Find the G Spot:
Are you relaxed and a little spicy? Then you can of course start your usual program. Massage your vulva, your vulva lips and touch what you like. Really take your time with this step, the more time you spend here, the more likely it is that you will succeed in squirting afterwards.
The G-spot is 2-3 cm after the entrance of the vagina , on the wall of the vagina facing towards the abdomen. You'll feel a spongy texture that's different from the rest of the vaginal skin. Some find that the skin there feels a bit like the skin of an orange. Feel free to push around or circle around the dot to find it, after all your vagina isn't so easily fragile! But be gentle with yourself! So get an overview of your textures in your wonderful vagina!
Lost in Paradise? Then switch positions , sometimes it works better when you crouch or when you kneel.
4. Massage your G-spot:
It could be that you already want to use lube now, then it just slips better! And it's more comfortable too. If you haven't already, insert two fingers into your wet vagina. Ring and middle fingers or middle and index fingers. They are long enough to reach and stimulate your G-spot.
Why fingers and not a toy to squirt with? We think it's better to start with feeling what's happening inside your vagina with your fingers. Direct and honest! But in the end it's up to you.
Start circling, stroking, and pushing against your G-spot a little. Take your time in this game of teasing, caressing, stimulating. Always be gentle with yourself! #lifetimegoal
When your G-spot is stimulated, it gets bigger and harder over time. A knob the size of a walnut or a hazelnut. Then you know, runs with you! So not yet, but the best conditions for cumming. You don't notice anything? Or is it just uncomfortable? Then postpone your session, maybe next time it will work better. Reward yourself for your workout with an orgasm.
5. Relax, push, let go - squirt:
If you notice that your G-spot is getting bigger and harder, you are absolutely on the right track. Don't just give up now. Most of the time, sooner or later you get the feeling that you urgently need to pee. Good sign! Because now you're about to squirt. But don't tense up now, stay nice and relaxed.
Better said than done. Do you feel like you want to push? Then push gently without cramping, otherwise it won't work! So keep going, breathe easy and push a bit! Admittedly, that's probably the hardest part. For some women, it takes a bit until the knot bursts, because you rarely know the feeling of having to go to the toilet from an erotic situation.
5. Tips & Tricks
Did you know : There is another fluid inside you that is responsible for the light spots in your underwear. You can find out what this is all about here .
Another tip: Sometimes your own finger or the toy covers the urinary outlet. Then of course nothing can flow! If you're using two fingers, try a (narrow) peace sign. Peace!
In the beginning there will probably only be a few drops. But then you know how it works in principle and can squirt in stages. There are women who also have an orgasm while doing it, others don't and just experience the feeling of pure squirting. Both are perfectly fine. See the whole thing as squirt training. It gets a little bit better every time. Don't expect too much from the first time (oh yes, how true). We wish you a lot of fun with certainly one of the coolest training sessions.