Congratulations, you have a clitoris! Then you are really lucky, because you can do so many things with it!
Those who know their own well can reach heights that non-owners can unfortunately only dream of.
Summary
The clitoris is responsible for orgasms.
With over 8000 nerve endings coming together here, it is a real emotional bomb.
The clitoris does not age! A 90-year-old clitoris is just as sensitive as a 20-year-old one.
Table of contents
Contents
1. The problem with the clitoris
Unfortunately, our world has been shaped for centuries by a very fearful and bitter patriarchy . This patriarchy feels threatened by such flights of fancy, instead of being happy that we live in a world where so much pleasure is possible. Fortunately, there are now more and more non-clitoral owners who enjoy watching a clitoris almost explode with delight.
The reason I need to tell you about the scared patriarchy first is because it is the reason why “mainstream” porn sucks so much and so many clitoris and non-clitoris owners have no idea how to honor and celebrate such a gift.
But not for long! The internet has a lot more to offer than aggressive and degrading porn. There are some great websites that help you get in the mood without a person having to question their moral code and go wash up afterwards. This finally brings us to point one of the instructions:
2. Get in the mood
The right atmosphere is very important for seducing the clitoris. With its 8,000 nerves , it is a real emotional bomb, but perhaps that is precisely why it needs a little more attention than other erogenous parts of the body.
It is definitely worth taking the time to court the clitoris and build a strong relationship with it, because it will last a lifetime!
So back to point 1: mood is important. To encourage the clitoris to play along, the environment and the owner's inner life must be set to pleasure. A variety of things can help with this.
Never forget: Just like every clitoris, every clitoris owner is unique! So you have to experiment a bit before you find the most effective solution. Of course, we are not static creatures, so different stimuli can work better or worse on different days. Always keep the flow going - then the happy secretions will flow too!
Trying and practicing are the key words for successful masturbation as a clitoris owner. But don't worry, you don't have to start from scratch.
Here are a few suggestions that will hopefully help get you and your clitoris in the mood:
Visual stimulation:
One of the simplest forms of stimulation and therefore best enjoyed in small doses: porn is a bit like fast food for the brain. You and your imagination don't have to work hard because it's served to you hot. That's nice, but over time you get lazy and soon you don't know how else to satisfy your appetite and pleasure. That's why men (90% of porn users are male) have to watch increasingly extreme porn. But nobody would say anything against a cheat day.
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https://www.makelovenotporn.com A really good site to find female and queer positive websites: http://www.feministpornguide.com/sites.html
Mood lighting:
Fairy lights or candles (that are safe and far enough away that you won't accidentally knock them over - we just want you to burn with desire, not your whole place). A well-placed mirror sometimes works better than a porno - you're hot, use it!
Auditory stimulation:
“Love Myself” by Hailee Steinfeld
"BOB" by Macy Gray
“I Touch Myself” by Divinyls
“Feeling Myself” by Nicki Minaj & Beyoncé
"Haircut" by The Waifs
“Con mis manos” by Bebe
Or as already mentioned in other articles and recommended by the editors: Sexy audio porn from www.femtasy.com
Or just listen to sounds made during sex or masturbation: https://soundsofpleasure.tumblr.com/archive
Tactile stimulation:
Silk (bed linen, negligee, cloth)
Feathers, leather, latex (and much more – depending on your taste)
thongs and lace bras
Everything that you like/feels good
Olfactory stimulation:
Do you like the smell of roses? Or does the sweet smell of a vanilla pod turn you on? Try it out!
Mental stimulation:
Sexy books or comics (Small Favors by Colleen Coover, Saga by Brian K. Vaughn, Wonder Woman Earth One by Grant Morrison, Yes, Roya by C. Spike Trotman, the Cute Girl Network by Greg Means and MK Reed, Crossplay by Niki Smith, to name a few…).
Or simply play scenarios of your choice in your mind
Emotional stimulation:
Some people find it helpful to think about their partner or a crush to get in the mood. Don't let shame or inappropriate modesty come between you and your orgasm.
3. Do it by hand
A US study from 2015 asked over 1000 women between the ages of 18-95 how they climax on their own. Although each person has a unique system, there are many overlaps. These have been kindly summarized and explained in detail for us: https://www.omgyes.com/de/
A brief overview of the content:
Rhythm is crucial! Whether you're circling, tapping or drawing diagonals over and around the clitoris - a consistent rhythm is what will bring you to orgasm. Patience is very important here and will be rewarded with explosive climaxes.
This website describes many methods, but what they all have in common is that the focus is on the clitoris. Penetration, i.e. inserting fingers or other things, does not occur. As most clitoris owners know, it is much nicer and often simply more rewarding to concentrate on the clitoris when masturbating.
4. Sex Toys
If we need something quick or just want to be lazy, sex toys are great. Before you buy, always check that the material is good. You should pay particular attention to the material, especially with cheaper products that you buy online.
I think vibrators and other self-stimulators are best when they can be used in different ways. Of course, the question also arises whether the toy is to be used externally or internally too - especially if you plan to use it internally, the size should of course be right. Better too small than too big is the motto here!
A few suggestions -
Handy and easy to store: a bullet vibrator. This is specially designed for clitoral stimulation. There are of course many different types here too. The Zany Pocket Toyfriend Mini Vibrator, for example. Or for on the go: a lipstick vibrator!
In general, for optimal clitoral stimulation, look for a “lay-on vibrator”. They are made specifically for this purpose.
If you prefer to hold something larger in your hand, you could try the Satisfyer Pro. It has a pointed side and a flatter side. This allows you to stimulate your clitoris in exactly the way that suits you best.
Or if you want to browse in other directions, then maybe a feather crop would be something for you. It is also great for BDSM beginners. You could browse online here: https://www.amorelie.de/kink-feder-gerte-schwarz/
As you can see, there are lots of great things to explore! Now all you have to do is find the time, get comfortable and get started!
What is the clitoris
The clitoris is an important organ of female sexuality and plays a crucial role in sexual pleasure and sexual health. There are several ways to stimulate the clitoris, whether through direct touch, indirect stimulation through friction, or through oral, manual, or vibrator-based sex.
How can you stimulate the clitoris?
A distinction is made between visual stimulation, auditory stimulation, tactile stimulation, olfactory stimulation, mental stimulation and emotional stimulation.
How do I know what I like?
Try it out! You never know what turns you on if you don't test what interests you. Find a safe space, close the door and try out what turns you on.
