If you're thinking "not every woman can squirt" "and I certainly can't", you're wrong! You are capable of doing it and probably haven't found the right way yet. Squirting is emancipation in bed! Because our vaginas can squirt too. And in that respect we're in no way inferior to men! Ha!
Summary
Squirting is not a myth and everyone of us can do it!
Although the fluid flows out of the urethra during squirting, it is not urine!
There are women who have an orgasm when squirting , others don't and just experience the feeling of pure squirting.
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Contents
1. Squirting: What is it?
Many women find the topic of squirting exciting, but don't know how or just don't dare to try it. Many say that the experience is worth trying.
Unlike an orgasm , which often goes up and down like a rollercoaster, squirting is more of a feeling of letting go.
2. What happens when you squirt?
For all those who are new to the squirting game and may need a short theoretical introduction about what exactly happens:
If you look at it in a purely technical way, when the G-spot is stimulated, the paraurethral gland, or Skene's gland, fills up . It's a sponge-like structure that absorbs the fluid known as female secretion. So when a woman squirts, this mixture of uric acid (no, not pee) flows out of the urethra. Not from the vaginal canal as some men assume.
3. Squirting = myth?
The internet is full of tutorials on how to make someone else squirt. We believe that you know best how to do it and will probably be more successful on your own. And only do it for yourself if you really want to. There is absolutely no point in following a sex trend or using it to please your partner. It is much more worthwhile to do it for yourself. So go ahead.
Oh yeah, if you think that when you ejaculate you ejaculate urine, you're wrong. The ejaculate (yay, equal rights) is not pee, but rather a secretion that simply doesn't smell of anything and is relatively clear. So definitely not pee.
Disclaimer: Squirting is for more experienced women. This means that if you have just learned to walk, you can try ballet dancing, but you will find it difficult. So if you have just had your first experiences with your sexuality, you can of course experiment with squirting, but don't be disappointed if it doesn't work right away.
4. How to ...
1. Rules for sexy time:
Take time to "practice" squirting and find a moment when you are relaxed. Don't let yourself be disturbed, put your cell phone on silent, close the door. Think warm thoughts. Maybe you think about the scent of your partner, or you get yourself hot with femtasy . Try to breathe slowly and calmly, this will relax your body and all the great muscles in your pelvic floor . Be patient and don't expect too much! It may not work right away.
2. Preparation is everything:
Lubricant can help make it more enjoyable. Sometimes our magic fluid leaves us sooner than we'd like, so keep lube or a pleasant body oil made from natural ingredients on hand. Natural lubricants are the best because they don't contain any harmful potential irritants and many are even vegan.
Prepare a large towel and slide it under your pelvis. Many women are also inhibited by the load that may leave their bodies quite uncontrollably. We women are simply not used to squirting bodily fluids around us during sex. Is everything waterproof? Then go for it!
3. Find the G-Spot:
Are you relaxed and a little horny? Then you can of course start with your usual routine. Massage your vulva, your labia and touch what you like. Really take your time with this step, the more time you spend here, the more likely it is that you will squirt later.
The G-spot is located 2-3 cm after the vaginal entrance , on the vaginal wall that faces the stomach. You feel a spongy texture there that is different from the rest of the vaginal skin. Some people find that the skin there feels a bit like the skin of an orange. Press around a bit or go around the spot to find it, after all, your vagina is not that fragile! But be gentle with yourself! So get an overview of the textures in your wonderful vagina!
Lost in Paradise? Then change position , sometimes it works better when you squat or kneel.
4. Massage your G-spot:
You might want to use lubricant now, then it will just slide more smoothly! And it will be more pleasant too. If you haven't already done so, insert two fingers into your wet vagina. Ring and middle finger or middle and index finger. They are long enough to reach and stimulate your G-spot.
Why use fingers and not a toy to squirt? We think it's better to start with using your fingers to feel what's happening in your vagina. More direct and honest! In the end, it's up to you.
Start circling your G-spot , stroking it, and pressing a little against the spot. Take your time with this game of teasing, stroking, stimulating. Always be gentle with yourself! #lifetimegoal
When your G-spot is stimulated, it gets bigger and harder over time. A lump as big as a walnut or hazelnut. Then you know you're on the right track! Well, not yet, but the conditions are perfect for ejaculating. You don't feel anything at all? Or is it just uncomfortable? Then postpone your session, maybe it will work better next time. Reward yourself for your training with an orgasm.
5. Relax, push, let go – squirt:
If you notice that your G-spot is getting bigger and harder, you are on the right track. Don't just give up now. Sooner or later, you will usually feel like you really need to pee. Good sign! Because now you are about to squirt. But don't tense up, just stay relaxed.
Easier said than done. Do you feel like you want to push? Then push gently without tensing up, otherwise it won't work! So keep going, breathe easily and push a little! Admittedly, this is probably the hardest part. For some women it takes a while until the knot bursts because the feeling of having to go to the toilet is something you rarely experience in an erotic situation.
5. Tips & Tricks
Did you know : There is another fluid inside you that is responsible for the light spots on your underwear. Find out what it is all about here .
Another tip: Sometimes your own finger or the toy covers the urinary outlet. Then nothing can flow! If you use two fingers, try a (thin) peace sign. Peace!
At first, only a few drops will probably come out. But then you'll know how it works in principle and you can squirt in stages. There are women who have an orgasm while doing it, others don't and just experience the feeling of pure squirting. Both are completely fine. Think of the whole thing as squirt training. It gets a little better each time. Don't expect too much from the first time (oh yes, how true). We hope you have fun with what is surely one of the hottest training sessions.
